I Am Enough – Self Empowerment 101

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hello! Does anyone else love finding quotes that really resonate with whatever it is you’re feeling? There’s something about finding a quote that feels just right. It confirms for you that you are not alone – others have felt and are feeling the very same thing. Quotes work well to summarize our feelings into a short, well-spoken statement. When times are hard, we could all use a little self empowerment. I searched the web and found some of my favorite self empowerment quotes. Which one resonates the most with you?

“You can, you should, and if you’re brave enough to start, you will.” – Stephen King

“It’s never too late to be who you might have been.” – George Eliot

“You were put on this earth to achieve your greatest self, to live out your purpose, and to do it courageously.” – Steve Maraboli

“You just can’t let life happen to you, you have to make life happen.” – Idowu Koyenikan

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?” – Marianne Williamson

“Even in the loneliest moments, I have been there for myself.” – Sanober Khan

“Everything is within your power, and your power is within you.” – Janice Trachtman

“No one has the power to shatter your dreams unless you give it to them.” – Maeve Greyson

“Reach high, for the stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal.” – Langston Hughes

“Stop giving people the power to steal your peace. It belongs to you and no one should be able to run away with it.” – A. Elle

“Don’t limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe, remember, you can achieve.” – Mary Kay Ash

Which one of these quotes (or a favorite of your own!) resonates with you and motivates you? Use these words as a reminder that you are enough, just as you are.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Five Apps to Support Your Mental Health

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hello! We are graced with the opportunity to have technology right at our fingertips. This comes in handy when we can use our favorite electronic gadget to support our own mental health. I took it upon myself to download a dozen mental health supportive apps to review for all of you, and here are my Top 5!

1. Happify – This app is all about science-based games and activities to increase your overall positive feelings. This app uses strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Positive Psychology, and Mindfulness, which just so happen to be three of my favorite interventions to tie in during therapy sessions, as well. This app was very interactive and I enjoyed the daily activities they offered to me that were catered to my goal set at the beginning. Definitely recommend!

2. Daylio – The best word to describe this app? Simple! It’s a mood tracker, so all you have to do is enter in the emotion you’re feeling and what kind of things you’ve been up to. As time goes on, Daylio shows you patterns to your behaviors and feelings so you can really be self aware. A monthly mood chart is created and it’s super insightful. I noticed Sunday nights tend to bring a little more anxiety and irritability as I prep for the start of a work week. Now, I recognize I need to take extra care of myself on those evenings. It’s great to be able to notice those patterns.

3. Headspace – Headspace is all about mindfulness and meditation. There’s science behind the positive impact of meditation on anxiety, and the benefits are amazing. This app offers great guided mindfulness techniques to target whatever you are going through – whether it’s stress, self-esteem issues, or sleep problems. There is an extended version that comes at a cost, but also a basic option free of charge.

4. Woebot – I’ll admit, I was skeptical of this one but definitely found myself extremely engaged. Once you’re registered, you are met by a self-proclaimed “Self-Care Expert” robot (or, Woebot). This app is also based in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (just like Happify) and uses mood tracking and strategies to help you combat any anxious or difficult feelings. Research studies show people feel more positive feelings in just two weeks of using this app. It’s certainly worth a try! This is one I plan to continue on with.

5. Sanvello – This app boasts 3 million current users, so something must be going right with this one. They have a great quote on their website – “Find relief when you need it. Feel happier over time.” That’s something that sounds pretty appealing, right? This app offers guided meditations that they call guided journeys, mood tracking, tips, and Q&A’s. It’s a sophisticated app and it’s easy to tell why they are successful.

Always remember it is OK to need some additional support, whether it’s through an app, a screen, or in person. LSI is here to serve you during this difficult time. Visit LSIowa.org/therapy to get started.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Summer Reading List

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hi and welcome! We are continuing to manage the stress that 2020 has brought us. We’re doing the best we can with what we’ve got, right? Reading is one of the BEST self-care strategies that I have discovered over the last couple of months. It gives us a chance to truly “escape” from the stressors outside our doors and immerse into a good read. The best part of reading is that there really is something for everyone. Are you a fan of mystery? There’s a book for that. Romance, biography, history, sci-fi? There’s a book for that, too! The University of Sussex did a research study that showed reading decreased stress by 68%. We could all use a little stress reduction, right? It also helps release muscle tension and decrease heart rate. Win, win, win. Here’s my summer reading list!

1. I Really Needed This Today by Hoda Kotb – I love the way this book is set up. Each new entry is given a date from January through December. It’s a great way to read a little each day, or just conquer it piece by piece as you have the time. Blogger insight: I’ll be doing a full review of this book at the end of the month, so it would be so fun to read it together!

2. The Lies that Bind by Emily Giffin – Emily Giffin is my favorite author and has been for years. This book was just released on June 2, so I haven’t had the chance to read it yet but it’s sitting on my bookshelf just waiting to be opened.

3. Along Came a Spider by James Patterson – James Patterson is a legendary author. This book has an impressive 4.5/5-star review on Amazon. It’s categorized as mystery.

4. It’s Not Supposed to be This Way by Lysa TerKeurst – A Christian book with the tagline “What do you do when God’s timing seems questionable, His lack of intervention hurtful, and His promises doubtful?” Sounds like a great book to read in times of uncertainty, which we can all agree is happening right now.

5. Girl, Wash Your Face by Rachel Hollis – This book has been talked about for a couple of years now, and for good reason. It was a New York Times #1 Bestseller. It’s a non-fiction book all about real issues in a real way. It’s entertaining and encouraging all at the same time.

6. Small Great Things by Jodi Picoult – Picoult is a name you’ve probably heard. She’s a fantastic author. This book tackles race, prejudice, privilege, and compassion – certainly something we could all benefit from reading.

Here are a few recommendations for our summer reading list for our young adults out there.

1. Harry Potter (entire series) by JK Rowling – Talk about being able to escape into a great book. This was one of the first series I found myself being totally immersed in. Taking a trip to Hogwarts through Rowling’s stories is a recommendation I would give to everyone.

2. The Tattooist of Auschwitz by Heather Morris – A great historical fiction that really demonstrates hope and courage. A great read.

3. Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children by Ransom Riggs – Fantasy for young adult that also ties in thrilling and mysterious storylines. What more could we ask for?

4. The Selection by Kiera Cass – Prepare to be swept into a fairytale with this book. It’s a captivating read that also found itself on the New York Times Bestseller list.

There we have it – lots of summer reading options! I would like to give a shout out to my friend Danielle for her assistance in compiling a solid summer reading list. She’s the most dedicated reader I know! What’s on your summer reading list?[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

To the Dads

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Happy Father’s Day to all the dads, step-dads, grandpas, uncles, and all the men who stand in as a father figure! Another year, another day to celebrate you. The role of a father has changed through generations, but what differentiates between a father and a dad? What does it mean to fill the role of a dad?

1. What I would consider the most important part of filling that dad role is simply showing up. Spend time with your child. One of the easiest ways to show your love and dedication to your child is to simply be there. Easy enough, right?

2. Be involved! Whether your child has matching interests with you or completely different, get involved. Use this opportunity to bond over a common interest OR learn about something new. It feels so good for children to know they are supported and it feels really good for you, too.

3. What is better than having a role model that you can also call “Dad?” Use your position as a parent to your greatest advantage and set the best example you can for your child. This does not mean avoiding mistakes – that’s impossible! It means make those mistakes and teach your child resilience.

4. Be interested in your child. No matter their age – learn their friend’s names, know their taste in music, and truly get to know their interests.

5. I encourage a positive relationship across the board, and this includes appropriate boundaries and consequences. As Dr. Daniel Siegel states in The Whole Brain Child, “Too often we forget that discipline really means to teach, not to punish. A disciple is a student, not a recipient of behavioral consequences.”

6. Finally, the answer is love. Love yourself, love your child, and love your relationship.

Happy Father’s Day to all the dads out there! This day is for you.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

“Let Me Tell You ‘bout my Best Friend”

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hello! Did you know June 8 is National Best Friend’s Day? I love how there are holidays to celebrate just about everything. A day to celebrate friendship though? That is totally valid.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/4″][vc_single_image image=”26106″ img_size=”medium”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”3/4″][vc_column_text]Today, we are going to dive into the world of friendship and discuss what qualities truly make a solid and long-lasting friendship. As we go into those specific traits, I know just the person I can reference who has all these qualities (and more). Let me introduce you to my best friend, Jaime!

Where can I start about what makes this girl the picture perfect best friend? We’ve been best friends for about 15 years now. We were great friends in middle and high school, then decided to be roommates our first and second year at the University of Northern Iowa. That’s where it was determined there wasn’t an Anne without Jaime or a Jaime without Anne. Jaime got married along the way, which added her husband into our group of “the three best friends that anyone could have.” Now, she has two of the sweetest children, and it’s been a joy to watch her grow into an amazing mother and wife. We have lived through life’s sweetest moments and life’s toughest moments and have reliably been by each other’s side. Her family is my second family, and I am forever grateful for our friendship. She’s hilarious, selfless, loyal, and has a heart of gold. She’s taught me a lot about friendship, so let’s dive into what makes a solid friendship last.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text padding_setting=”1″ ipad_padding=”sm-padding-one”]1. Honesty – We all have that acquaintance that can be too honest. The best friendships have a great balance between honesty and respect.

2. Loyalty – You never want to question if your friend has your back. It should just be a given! Even when you don’t agree with something your friend does or says, stay true to the friendship and have a conversation about it. Loyalty goes a long way.

3. Non-Judgment – No one is perfect. When we make mistakes, a good friend is there to support us without judgment. When it comes to friendship, it’s so comforting to know you won’t be judged.

4. Dependability – This one is easy. Show up when you say you’re going to, and be a constant support. We are all busy, but make your friendship a priority.

5. Support – Whether it’s a cup of coffee, a laugh, or a shoulder to cry on, friendship is all about support.

6. Humor – What’s better than laughter with the people you care about the most? On a personal note, no one makes me laugh harder than Jaime. It’s joy at its finest.

When it comes down to it, friendship is one of the most important parts of life. I truly hope each of you have a “Jaime.” What qualities are the most important to you in a friendship? Take some time today to reach out and check in with a friend![/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Taking on new challenges and kicking bad habits

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hi, everyone! How are we already landing in June? Time flies. Did anyone else find themselves just simply acting on survival techniques over the last several months while we handled the COVID-19 pandemic? As gyms closed, groceries were ordered online, spas and libraries were closed, and we were encouraged to just stay home, I found myself falling back on some bad habits and old ways. The motivation to start a new challenge just was not there as we were in the midst of a difficult time. Here we are, several months later, and we have the opportunity to start fresh and really dive into these new challenges.

It feels almost like a New Year’s Resolution, but different. According to research, only 8% of people keep their New Year’s resolutions past a month. This unique time we are in now gives us the opportunity to reflect on the last several months of our life to determine what is important to us. We are able to experience this self-reflection in the most organic way possible. We had no choice but to halt life in a lot of ways. What did you miss the most during this time? What did you discover is important to you? What do you want your life to look like moving forward?

A coworker shared with me that her “COVID habit” that she is going to work on quitting is eating so many frozen pizzas! What COVID habit might you break? Maybe you’ll reduce online shopping, get some more steps in, get some more sleep, or eat some fruits and vegetables. Whatever it is, make it attainable and beneficial to you.

The most important part of taking on a new challenge or kicking a bad habit is to be realistic and allow yourself to make mistakes. We are humans, and we are not perfect. Acknowledge and celebrate any success, and forgive any mistakes. You can do this![/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Interview with LSI Clinical Service Coordinator Amy Davis

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Welcome back! Here with me today (virtually) is Amy Davis, a Clinical Service Coordinator here at LSI. When we talk about people who wear multiple caps in their job, we are talking about people like Amy. She is a hard worker, extremely knowledgeable at what she does, and has a heart of gold. She’s fantastic. I wanted to take the time to interview Amy today to get some information to you about LSI and some of the programs offered, as well as to give you the chance to get to know Amy.

Q: Hi, Amy! Thanks so much for agreeing to do this interview for our LSI blog. You wear so many caps on a day-to-day basis. Can you tell us about your role here at LSI?
A: I started with LSI in 2002 as a direct care staff member, providing visits to children under a contract with DHS. In 2008, I moved into a Service Coordinator role, overseeing Behavioral Health Intervention Services (BHIS), Therapy Services, and Community Programs in western Iowa. In the past couple of years, we have expanded our services and added multiple new programs to serve Iowa’s children and families in many different capacities. In 2018, I took on the role of overseeing services in both central and western Iowa and have loved the versatility and interactions with many different people in my role as Clinical Service Coordinator.

What are some of the programs LSI has to offer that may be of support to our readers?
LSI offers in-home BHIS to all children and families eligible. Bachelor’s level staff provide skill-based learning activities to help the child and family improve their daily functioning. LSI offers outpatient therapy services, as well as teletherapy services, to all Iowans. Currently, we have more than 20 mental health therapists statewide ready to serve our clients. LSI believes that no person should feel helpless or alone when it comes to their mental health, especially now, during all of this uncertainty. LSI’s expert therapists empower Iowans along the way to a healthier and happier future.

LSI also offers many community-based programs including: Community Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention (CAPP), Trauma Informed Services, School Based Mental Health Services, Adolescent Diversion, Services for Unaccompanied Minors, Strengthening Families, Personal Responsibility Educational Program (PREP), migrant programming, among many others. These community programs allow us to serve a more diverse population, providing services that meet their unique needs.

How can someone reach out for services at LSI?
An individual can contact our central intake number at 888.457.4692 and they will be able to assist in connecting families with an expert staff member for outpatient therapy and BHIS. If you are inquiring about community-based programs, you can contact me at Amy.Davis@LSIowa.org.

On a little bit of a separate note, we are in some really hard times right now with COVID-19 across the world. What has been the biggest challenge for you, personally or professionally?
The biggest challenge for me during this time has been slowing down. Although I have taken refuge in my additional time with my family, I do miss running my kids to their activities and watching them run out of practice or after a game with a great big smile on their face. I miss seeing them with their friends and dropping and picking them up from school. I never thought I would say this! But I miss giving and receiving hugs.

What have you been doing to care for yourself?
For self care, my kids and I go on walks with our dogs. We have enjoyed looking at the birds and really watching and enjoying nature. We play games a lot at home and this has been a lot of fun. Prior to COVID-19, we were always on the go and now, we have been able to really enjoy our time at home. Although I do miss things about being “on the go,” I have also enjoyed being able to do things like play board games, plant a garden, and organize closets.

What will be the first thing you do when quarantine guidance is lifted and life returns to a new “normal”?
The first thing I will do is go give my mom and dad a great big hug! I want them to stay safe and if that means dropping things off at their doorsteps or talking to them from a distance in the driveway, that is what I will do for now. But I can’t wait to be able to hug them and have all of my siblings, their spouses, and my nieces and nephews in one house again.

Any last words for our readers?
Please be kind to yourself. It is OK to feel sad, angry, or upset during this time. Don’t forget to smile and enjoy what’s around you. Take on a new hobby, try something new. Go outside and really watch what’s around you; gaze up at the stars, watch the birds flying above you, smile at the squirrels chasing each other in the trees. Hang in there. #WeAreAllInThisTogether[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Gratitude and Reflection- What are You Thankful for During These Challenging Times?

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hello! How have you been doing? We continue to ride this rollercoaster of a pandemic, where you catch negative and positive reports on the news daily. We know things are hard right now but today, we are focusing on the good. If anything, the last several months have allowed us to have some serious self-reflection. We’ve been able to reflect on what things are unnecessary and do not bring us joy. It really has been an opportunity for us to determine what is most important in the most organic way.

A wise friend said to me recently, “Now that the moments are back, how are you going to make them count?” Think about that a little bit. So many things were no longer an option – weddings, funerals, school, birthday parties, vacations, family gatherings, concerts, events, religious gatherings, etc. Some of these are now options for us once again, so how will we make them count? Will we cherish them a little more? Will we recognize the importance of being in the moment? Here’s the good news – it’s up to you. You get to choose how you now will make these moments count.

As I reflect back on the last several months, I am able to see some personal improvements. I have more patience and understanding that things take time. I am more aware of my surroundings. I make sure the people around me and myself are safe. I have a stronger sense of community and compassion within my community. I support small businesses and my neighbors. I have the most gratitude for our healthcare and frontline workers, truly knowing they put their lives on the line for us. What about you? Are you noticing improvements in your ways of thinking?

Finally, I want to bring attention to some of the positive and heartwarming aspects of this challenging time. If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you know I’m a huge animal lover. I came across this Instagram page (@dogsworkingfromhome) and it’s hysterical. Our animals are so happy right now, and if you browse that page, you’ll see! On a more serious note, the canals in Venice are clearer than they’ve been in decades. Teachers and celebrities are reading children’s stories virtually so children can continue to learn. Neighborhoods across the world played music from their balconies to create collective music. Small towns in Iowa have created window scavenger hunts to create happiness for families. Finally, perhaps one of the most important positives, we have learned about ourselves. We have learned how to slow down. We have learned what is important to us. We have learned how to care for each other (and ourselves) in a whole new way.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

Guided Mindfulness Activity to Decrease Anxiety

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hi, everyone! Anxiety is around us all the time. Some of us experience anxiety more than others, but anxiety is a stranger to no one. Today, I’m offering one of my favorite ways to tackle anxious feelings, and that is through mindfulness. Mindfulness is a technique that goes back many, many years. The goal of mindfulness is to focus on the calm of the here and now; not worrying about what happened last week, and not thinking about what may happen tomorrow. This resource below is a guided imagery mindfulness activity. This particular resource was produced at the Trauma Center in Massachusetts. Read along and practice being mindful.

Imagine going to a place, real or invented, where you feel safe, peaceful, and calm. You want to take the time to develop the imagery so you fully experience this place with all your senses. Start out with a simple check-in of your emotional state, your thoughts, and what you are feeling in your body. Just notice what’s happening, without judgment or expectation.

Let your breath deepen, and locate a spot in your body where you are starting to feel an opening, a lightness, or a loosening. Allow that to expand with every in-breath and every out-breath, imagining it gradually filling up your entire body. Imagine this relaxing energy moving through your body in waves, reaching every part of you.

Imagine you are at the sea shore on a beautiful day. It’s the perfect time of day, and the perfect time of year for you to be there. Recall the feeling you get in your body when you are at the beach, or what it was like when you were there as a child. Let yourself explore that feeling. Imagine the warmth of the sun on the top of your head and your shoulders. Allow this image to develop.

Perhaps there’s a pleasant breeze, which you feel on your face and arms. Imagine the refreshing, salty breeze off the water, and breathe. Maybe you can even taste the salt spray. Look up and down the beach and notice the expanse of sand, the color and texture of it, the way it sparkles in the sunlight. Imagine that you are standing in the dry, soft, sand, and feel it beneath your feet and between your toes.

Imagine taking a few steps, and feeling what it’s like to walk in deep, warm, soft sand. Move closer to the water and walk in the cool, firm sand. Feel it take on the shape of your feet as you walk. Look behind you and see your footprints. Notice the waves gently rolling in and lapping the shore, gradually smoothing those footprints out, rhythmically washing them away as the waves roll back out.

Look at the edge of the water and notice the color. Notice that color meeting the sand, and the waves gently lapping on the shore, rolling in, breaking softly, and going back out, over and over, endlessly. Hear the, deep, calming, rhythmic sound of the waves breaking on the beach.

Look out to the horizon, and notice the waves as far back as you can see, rolling toward the shore, breaking, glittering in the sunlight. Notice the dancing light moving rhythmically across the whole surface of the water. Notice the place where the surf meets the sky, and see where the colors come together. Notice the light. Let yourself feel the expanse of the sky, and imagine breathing that in, filling yourself with that feeling of spaciousness, brightness, and light.

If you like, you might imagine going into the water, and feeling gently carried on the waves, safe in the protected cove, warmed by the sun. Just rolling gently on the surf, carried safely on the buoyant waves.

When you come out of the water, find the clean, dry, soft towel you have placed there. Imagine lying down on the towel, feeling the warm sand beneath mold itself to your body. Notice how the warm, firm surface supports your whole body, and allow yourself to relax deeply into it, letting the warmth and comfort fill your body and mind.

When you have finished your guided meditation, take a few minutes to sit quietly, noticing what you are experiencing in your body, what your thoughts and emotions are like.

What was that like for you? If you found it calming and relaxing, there are so many options out there to practice mindfulness and decrease anxiety. I recommend the apps Headspace and Calm, or do a quick Google search for “guided imagery mindfulness activity.” The options are endless and nothing beats the calm, peaceful feeling that comes from mindfulness.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]

6 Self-Motivation Tips

[vc_row padding_setting=”1″ desktop_padding=”padding-one”][vc_column width=”1/1″][vc_column_text]By Anne Peters, LMFT

Hello there! Thanks for finding your way to our blog. Today, we are talking self-motivation. I love this quote from Mary Oliver: “Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?” It’s true, right? We want to live our lives to their greatest potential. However, you’re not alone if sometimes it just feels tough to get motivated. Whether it’s to mow the lawn, tackle a big project, or go for a walk, let’s talk motivation tips.

1. Set big goals: Here’s where it always starts for us, right? We get a big image of whatever it is we hope to achieve. For some, it’s to save a large amount of money, it’s to run a half marathon, or it’s that promotion you’ve been chasing. It’s great to have goals. It gives us something to work towards! So identify what your goal is and jot it down somewhere. First step – check!

2. Set small goals: Now that the big goal has been set, set some small and achievable goals for yourself. If your goal is to put a down payment on a new home, set small goals of saving a certain amount of money each paycheck. If your goal is to run a half marathon, make a goal of gradually increasing your run lengths. The most important part of small goals is to keep them achievable.

3. Accountability: This one is key for me. Make your goals and intentions known to others! Let your close family and friends know about your intent to reach your goals. This serves two purposes. Number one, you get some support and number two, you will be held accountable. It feels good to be able to share successes (both big and small) with loved ones.

4. Be kind to yourself: We all have slip-ups. We are human after all! So pay attention to the self talk you are giving yourself and make sure there are more positive messages being sent to yourself than negative. We are our own greatest critic at times but with the power we hold to change our thoughts, we can also be our greatest cheerleader.

5. Acknowledge and reward progress: When we meet those small or big goals, or even just stay on track, it’s so important we acknowledge that for ourselves. Did you know the greatest key to self-motivation is by recognizing the progress that has been made? Find rewards that work for you. Tell yourself how proud you are!

6. Chase your why: It all comes down to this. Why is this goal important to you? Chase that why to really narrow it down. What’s the underlying reason the goal is so important? Is it to feel better about yourself? Is it to achieve something new? It is to learn a new skill? Is it to show yourself you can do it? Whatever it is, it’s at the core of your goal and will drive you to success.

We would love to hear from you. What are your goals? How are you staying motivated? Send your ideas to April.Howe@LSIowa.org. Until next time![/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]